So, there’s a wedding on the horizon, and you’ve been given the exciting task of organising a hen weekend! If it’s your first time planning one, don’t worry—our handy guide will help you create the perfect pre-wedding celebration.

Sophisticated Hen Parties

Gone are the days of over-the-top antics and wild nights out. Today’s hen parties are more refined, focusing on quality time with close friends, celebrating the bride-to-be, and making unforgettable memories. With many brides marrying in their 30s, hen weekends now lean towards elegance and relaxation—think afternoon tea on the terrace, poolside lounging, hot tub soaks, sauna sessions, and cozy movie nights with a favorite film.

Hen parties are about laughter, shared stories, great food and drinks, and long, heartfelt chats. The right setting makes all the difference, which is why a weekend in a luxurious self-catering holiday house is the perfect choice. Our stunning hen party houses offer exclusive use of indoor pools, hot tubs, saunas, games rooms, and movie rooms—so come rain or shine, your celebration will be one to remember.

Each property can be tailored to your vision, with an array of extras to enhance your stay. Decorate with the help of professional florists, indulge in a delicious feast prepared by private caterers, or enjoy an at-home spa day with visiting beauty therapists. For added fun, book entertainment like life drawing, archery, laser clay shooting, dance classes, craft workshops, cocktail masterclasses, pottery painting, or even a private casino night.

Or use our Concierge Partner who specialise in private chef hire and event activity planning across the UK. From gourmet catering to a wide range of activities—including spa treatments, archery, and more—they create unforgettable experiences.

Stress-Free Planning

Don’t take it all on yourself—planning a hen weekend is much easier with a little help. Get a couple of bridesmaids or friends involved, and most importantly, ask the bride what kind of celebration she envisions. Will it be a relaxing retreat, an activity-filled adventure, or a themed weekend? Our Things To Do pages are full of ideas, from paddleboarding and country pursuits to off-roading and alpaca walking.

Here’s a simple checklist to help you get started:

1. The Guest List

Make sure everyone the bride wants is included—friends, colleagues, and family. It’s now common for mothers of the bride and groom to join the celebration too!

2. The Venue

Finding the perfect setting is easy. Our spacious holiday homes accommodate up to 30 guests and are located in stunning countryside and coastal locations. Choose from elegant country houses, charming timber-clad lodges, sea-view cottages, and luxurious barn conversions in Somerset, Devon, Wiltshire, Gloucestershire, Herefordshire, Nottinghamshire, Hampshire, and Surrey. Consider travel logistics, sharing lifts, and picking up guests from train stations.

3. The Date

Check with the bride for preferred dates, then create a group chat (WhatsApp works great) to find what suits everyone. Once agreed, book accommodation early to secure your ideal property, then arrange activities, catering, and entertainment, or use My Event Concierge to help. A few weeks before, finalize any details—such as fancy dress, old photographs, or themed props—and plan meals. A pre-arranged grocery delivery can make things much easier.

4. The Budget

Set a clear budget from the start. Sometimes the bride’s family covers costs, but more often, expenses are shared among the guests. This is where My Event Concierge can help. Once you have secured the accommodation you get a clear price per person for your chosen package. Factor in travel, meals, and entertainment, and be prepared to chase up payments if needed!

Time to Celebrate!

Once everything is set, it’s time to relax and enjoy. Make the most of every moment in your luxury hen party house—catch up with friends, take plenty of photos, and create lasting memories. Browse our stunning hen party houses and book your perfect weekend today!